Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Sexual and Gender Diversity Enriching To All, Ordained Minister Says

Sexual and gender diversity enriches us all, says an ordained Unitarian Universalist minister and Executive director of the Religious Institute, a multifaith organization dedicated to sexual health and justice.

Religious organizations and people frequently lead opposition to gay rights in the United States, said Debra W. Haffner:

In the August ruling which overturned California's Proposition 8 banning same-sex marriage, a witness asserted, "Religion is the chief obstacle for gay and lesbian political progress."


Why does religion play such a central role in debates about homosexuality?
Last week on this blog, I challenged clergy across the country:
What if ...all of us told them from our pulpits how heartbroken we are by Tyler Clementi's suicide and that we want to make sure that no young person in our community would ever feel such despair?

Haffner continues --

Lana Lawless: Transgender golfer files LPGA lawsuit

Jennifer Waite
Tucson Celebrity Headlines Examiner

Lana Lawless became an internet celebrity the minute the words transgender, LPGA and lawsuit came into play, but even more interesting than the Lana Lawless lawsuit is Lana Lawless herself. Born male, Lawless had gender reassignment surgery back in 2005 to become a woman. Now a talented female golfer, Lana Lawless is challenging the LPGA with a lawsuit due to their rules about being born a female in order to compete in the league.

Jennif Waite continues --

Diversity Briefings; Med School Diversity Increase; Hispanic Enrollments Most Pronounced

Medical schools accepting greater diversity of students
By Mike Lillis - 10/13/10 01:08 PM ET


More and more minority students are entering the nation's medical schools, the Association of American Medical Colleges (AAMC) reported Wednesday.

The increase was most pronounced among Hispanics, who saw first-year enrollment jump to 1,539 in 2010 — 9 percent above 2009 levels, AAMC found. For black students, the increase was 2.9 percent (to 1,350), while Asians saw enrollment rise 2.4 percent, to 4,214.

The number of first-year white students, meanwhile, was 12,094 in 2010 — up 0.4 percent from 2009, the group said.


Article continued -- The Hill/HealthWatch

Monday, October 11, 2010

LGBT Celebrate National Coming Out Day Oct. 11th

Popdecay News, Politics and Entertainment
Filed by Desiree Washington

Every year on October 11th, thousands of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people and friends of the community join forces in celebration of National Coming Out Day, an internationally observed civil awareness day for coming out and discussing LGBT civil rights issues.

National Coming Out Day is said to have been founded by activists in celebration of the Second National March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights, in which 500,000 people marched on Washington, DC, for equality.

Nationwide, events related to National Coming Out Day consist of workshops, speak-outs, rallies and other events geared to show the public that LGBT people are everywhere, near and dear to us all.

For a list of events in your area and additional resources, visit the Human Rights Campaign website at http://www.hrc.org/ncod/ On Twitter, search for #COUNTMEOUT and #LGBT for updates.

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Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Respect, Tolerance, Sense of Humor All Required For Embracing Diversity

We talk about embracing diversity, but what does this really mean?

Say that you have employees and/or customers who speak English as a second language. Can you pronounce their names? Speak some common words or phrases in their native language? If the answer is yes, you are showing signs of embracing diversity.

For leaders, embracing diversity means they must do far more than merely accept the existence of diversity. To make diversity work, they must embrace it, and this starts by modeling good diversity skills, by showing respect and appreciation for the differences among the people they lead, and by helping others accept and value these differences.

Fundamentally, embracing diversity translates into showing respect for others and their differences. Tolerance for uncertainties (haziness) in language, styles and behavior, is at the top of a list created by William Sonnenschein, a diversity expert and author of “The Diversity Toolkit.”

So for the employer who has Latino customers and employees, as an example, it makes a significant difference when he or she is able to pronounce names and common words in Spanish. A friendly “Buenos Dias” makes a nice welcome in the morning as does “Buenos Tardes” in the afternoon and “Buenos Noches” in the evening. Using such phrases and pronouncing them correctly, represents a key step to embracing diversity. And besides, it’s fun to learn a new language!

Flexibility is another key factor. When situations are new, difficult or challenging, do you show flexibility? Do you give your employees and customers added time and assistance for adjusting to change?

Self-awareness represents another point on Sonnenschein’s diversity embracement list. A person must understand his or her own reactions and know what they bring to the diverse workplace. Maybe you enjoy dressing in expensive clothing; how do you feel about the employee who would rather dress comfortably than model your expensive image? What is important to you may not even be on the radar of your employee or customer. The whole world does not enjoy dressing formally – so are you being unfair in your evaluation of others who do not dress exactly like you do?

Empathy is another requirement. Are you capable of feeling what someone who is different from you might be feeling in new or strange surroundings? What about the new employee who comes to the XYZ Company from a country of extreme poverty. Will they truly feel welcome at a large cocktail party after their first day of work? Or overwhelmed? Or even frightened? Can you imagine how you would feel in their shoes?

How would a new mother returning to work after having a baby feel if she did not have an appropriate place to use a breast pump? Sound bizarre? Recently in Iowa, a company refused to allow a woman to use their “special” lactation room because she didn’t fill out a form that required three days notice to use such a facility.

The woman finally had to leave work (and quit) because of the physical pain she was in due to her employer's insensitivity.

Are you patient? Some cultures (actually most) do not consist of Type A racers, requiring a manager’s adjustment if the working relationship is going to be successful.

A sense of humor tops off this list that comes from Sonnenschein’s book, “The Diversity Toolkit.” When we lose our sense of humor, we lose our sense of humanity, as well as our perspective.

But humor is tricky. Having a sense of humor certainly does not mean poking fun at someone because they are “different.” It does not mean mimicking someone’s accent or laughing behind their back. It does mean enjoying others and keeping in mind the ability to laugh at oneself can dispel tension.

Remember – showing respect, tolerance, flexibility, self-awareness, empathy, patience and humor – means that you are well on your way to embracing diversity.

Diversity Management Attainable; Company Leaders Must Have Necessary Skills

Do associated management problems such as resistance and conflict make diversity too difficult to adopt by most organizations?

Two popular diversity spokespeople answer this question, stating diversity is clearly possibile, as long as leaders acquire the necessary skills for managing it.

Consider the imaginary XYZ Company -- a useful model for understanding diversity. During the last ten years XYZ has experienced at every level an increase in the number of women and people of color.

One department, previously all male, transitioned to 35 percent female. Mid-management, formerly almost entirely comprised of white males, now includes 30 percent people of color - from African American to Latinos and members of the LGBT community.

Imagine that diversity has also had an impact on XYZ's upper management. Perhaps a physically disabled woman, a financial expert, became its senior vice president of finance two years ago. Then an African American man was named head of marketing.

If XYZ was a real company, how would such diversity accomplishments affect the company?

Diversity expert, William Sonnenschein, author of "Diversity Toolkit," demonstrates such change would have its good points and bad. Some of the longer term employees, for instance, might feel "things aren't going as smoothly" as they used to. Some white males would be concerned about being passed over for promotions.

"Many people [might] worry about not having as much fun, what with sexual harassment laws and other problems created by diversity," Sonnenschein points out.

In the case of the imaginary XYZ Company, the president and CEO welcomes the challenge, seeing it as a chance for growth as a company. The CEO thinks the diversity has brought more innovation and a better understanding of the department stores' customers. The CEO says the transition has not been easy.

Yet he believes that with hard work, with properly trained management getting the most out of all the employees, XYZ will stay healthy well into the future.It is a scenario similar to what Sonnenschein imagines when writing about organizational diversity.

The demographics of the workplace are changing and will continue to change rapidly, Sonnenschein and other diversity experts, incuding R. Roosevelt Thomas, Jr., a consultant and the author of "World Class Diversity Management," point out.

Almost every organization in the United State looks different today, in terms of who is employed and the position they hold - compared to even ten years ago. Workforce diversity is not a matter for debate. It is a fact that presents one of the greatest challenges facing today's organizations and only through hard work and committed leadership, can the potential for benefit be realized.

But where will the leadership come from? How many leaders are needed? What skills do they need? To answer these questions requires first understanding the current definition of diversity - and most definitions tend to be quite broad.

Most diversity experts define diversity as significant difference among people, primarily focusing on race, culture, gender, sexual orientation, age, and physical abilities. Their definitions include differences in religion, class, ethnicity, nation of origin, and even learning and communication styles or simply where people come from and their occupations.

Most definitions tend to be broad. A group of white female engineers is a diverse group, as well as a group of white male engineers. All are individuals with differences and all of these differences can affect the workplace.

By understanding diversity well enough, today's manager can get the most out of any group by appreciating and using their differences and talents. Diversity has its best potential and its biggest challenge in deeper differences, Sonnenschein advises.

Deep differences in today's workforce can cause deeper differences in styles and in ways of looking at and doing things, causing some organizations "do more than they ever dreamed possible." Specific benefits might include offering of a wide range of views to be presented, including views that challenge the status quo.

Strenghthening core values can occur with more diversity as well as organizational change. Social, economic, intellectual and emotional growth often take place as diversity deepens. Diversity also helps organizations better understand their place in the global community.

More research is showing the value of organizational diversity, supporting both Sonnenschein and Thomas. For instance, one study by the Federal Glass Ceiling Commission demonstrated that companies successfully using a diverse workforce saved millions of dollars in turnover costs and earned twice the rate of return on investment as those which did not use diversity well.

Of course there are challenges - diversity's benefits do not automatically come. Challenges come as those employees holding racist, sexist, ageist and homophobic beliefs are disrupted, sometimes halting organizations from ever achieving their missions because of disruption and resistance.

Hence, leaders must be aware of the challenges of diversity in order to rise above them and reap diversity's benefits, Sonnenschein writes. Some specific organizational challenges might require more complexity of management - it is easier to manage a group of like-minded people that a group of people who are very different from each other and from their leaders.

Fairness can draw some challenges, as different cultures define fairness in different ways. Other challenges might focus on issues such as unanimity, identity and loyalty as these often vary among cultures.

There may be a need for more frequent redefining oneself and the values of others, for example. Yet it is possible to turn many of these challenges into benefits - finding new approaches to doing tasks leads to innovation, for instance.

Achieving diversity requires well trained leaders who have excellent diversity skills and who are capable of finding new ways to make diversity work. Just watch any leading company - small or large - that is growing and thriving. Then take a look at its top leadership and you will most likely finds the signs of strong diversity management in place.
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Susan Klopfer, M.B.A., is author of "Profit From Diversity: Getting Along With Others," set for publication in mid November, during National Education Week. Visit her and learn more about diversity at http://www.susanklopfer.com.

Message to Heterosexuals: Take a Stand Because Your Silence is Killing Us

The Diversity Speaker Newsletter
Dr. Maura J. Cullen
(Sponsor, The Diversity Student Summit)
Oct. 2010 Issue

A Message To Heterosexuals: Take a Stand Because Your Silence is Killing Us
An all out assault is taking aim at gays, lesbians, bisexuals and transgender people across this country. And with mid-term elections on the horizon you can be certain that the Republican Party will dispense the anti-gay/pro-family platform frequently.

GLBT students have experienced the bulk of the violence. Bullying, both new school (cyber-bullying) and old school techniques have proven to be deadly. Even politicians and musicians are taking their heterosexist and dangerous rhetoric to the public airwaves.

Here are some of the troubling events that have taken place this past month alone.

'Don't ask--Don't tell' policy permitting discrimination of LGBT military service personnel is upheld.

GLADD (Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation) reported that over the last month, four teenagers have taken their own lives after facing bullying incidents and another student that was not reported brings the total to five.

18-year-old Tyler Clementi, a freshman at the Rutgers University New Brunswick/Piscataway Campus, jumped off of the George Washington Bridge after a classmate secretly filmed him kissing another man and then posted it to the Internet. 


13-year-old Asher Brown, a student at Hamilton Middle School in Cypress, Texas, shot himself in the head after enduring what his mother and stepfather say was constant anti-gay harassment. 



13-year-old Seth Walsh, a student at Jacobsen Middle School in Tehachapi, Calif., hanged himself from a tree after classmates taunted him repeatedly for being gay. He initially survived the attempt, but he died after ten days on life support.



15-year-old Billy Lucas, a freshman at Greensburg High School in Greensburg, Ind., hanged himself the day his friends say he was suspended from school for fighting back against the bullies who abused him constantly. The harassment was often directed at what the aggressors presumed about his sexual orientation.

Raymond Storm Chase, a gay man from Johnson & Wales University (RI) hung himself in his residence hall room.

Michigan Assistant Attorney General Andrew Shirvell has waged a media war against Chris Armstrong, president of the University of Michigan student assembly who is gay. Through cyber-bullying and harassment as well as TV appearances, Shirvell is committing the very same acts of harassment he has vowed to protect people from. On his blog Shirvell called Armstrong "Nazi like," a recruiter for "the cult that is homosexuality," and a proponent of a "racist, anti-Christian agenda."

50 Cent tweeted an anti-gay message to his 3.3 million followers soon after Tyler Clementi's suicide. The rapper wrote: "If you a man and your over 25 and you don't eat pu**y just kill your self damn it. The world will be a better place. Lol."

All of this hate in only one month's time. Without question this is only the tip of the iceberg. October 11th is Inter-national Coming Out Day. In the United States, the Human Rights Campaign (HRC) manages the event under the National Coming Out Project, offering resources to LGBT individuals, couples, parents and children, as well as straight friends and relatives, to promote awareness of LGBT families living honest and open lives. It is time for our heterosexual allies, family and friends to become vocal in speaking out and standing with their GLBT family, friends and colleagues. It is no longer acceptable to simply know what the right thing is to do; we must find the courage to actually DO IT!

As heartbreaking as these stories are and for the many that have not been told, there is hope. There has been a loud outcry for change from politicians and educators. Hollywood and television personality's, Ellen, Anderson Cooper, Dr. Phil, the cast of Glee and Modern Family, etc... have taken a strong stand against anit-gay bullying.

Among other highlights reported by HRC:

Corporate America protects LGBT workers from discrimination and provides benefits in ways that the government doesn't. While only 29% of the U.S. population lives in states with statewide non-discrimination statutes that specify sexual orientation and gender identity, 99% of Corporate Equality Index-rated companies include sexual orientation and 76% include sexual orientation and gender identity in their non-discrimination policies. In 2002, only 5% of companies included gender identity among their non-discrimination policies.
In 2004, only 3% of Corporate Equality Index-rated companies addressed transgender health with limited benefit offerings. Today, 79% of rated companies provide this limited coverage and 85 companies specifically offer at least one health care plan option to all employees that covers many medically necessary transition-related treatment including hormone therapies and sexual affirmation surgeries.

In 2002, 70% of Corporate Equality Index-rated companies provided domestic partnership health-care benefits. Today, 95% of rated companies provide that coverage
See full article from DailyFinance: http://www.dailyfinance.com/story/company-news/target-best-buy-and-3m-lose-gay-rights-groups-top-rating/19660038/?icid=sphere_copyright

As educators we must be vigilant in creating a climate where our GLBT students feel safe. Acts of harassment and bullying must be taken seriously and dealt with in a timely manner. We have to confront language, even the very common saying of "that's so gay" or "fag". It's often the accumulation of what many think are harmless remarks and jokes that leave a lasting impact on the GLBT community or those perceived to be GLBT. Our allies have to be empowered with a skill set that allows them to confront their heterosexual peers and parents.
We must not back down from those who would seek to harm us---we must stand up--stand out--and stand together.